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Hey...so just an observation of stuff that happens around me daily. When you get older, there's really more of a sense of scrutiny and judgement with a lot more things you do. You didn't do something correctly or according to the rules of even social norms and you're going to hear about it. It doesn't even have to be something illegal. Why are you facing the wall in an elevator? Why are you not going on this path that's labeled on the ground? I think that's why so many people just dread going out in public, it's a standard set of routine actions that we do to each other and thereby think everyone else is normal because they followed said thing. 

That's not to say that the opposite is exactly the answer to all our problems, people tend to take things to extremes and run it for others in doing so as authoritative figures have to do something in order to keep things from getting out of control.

Instead, I'd like to compare it to back when you and I were growing up, it was much more congratulatory and a happy environment. If you even tried at things people would be understanding and try to help you out. If you did something wrong for the most part they wouldn't just clamp down on you. Of course this is a generalization, I don't know how you all grew up, but when you're younger even the most annoying of people would be more understanding to you for the most part.

You don't really get a pat on the back if you do the stuff you normally do, the exception being if you find a person you really want to love. It's kind of a shame really. So it's always best to give people, not even just positive comments, anyone can give positive comments, but helpful comments, kindly worded helpful comments. So you can share your expertise about something and be positive about it as well. Kindly worded helpful comments followed by a positive statement can do wonderful things for people.

So while we're on the topic of wonderful things,