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Not entirely sure what this is that popped on my page. In any case this is a good time for an update. This is my first Halloween in ages I've had the day off...and I'm of course pretty busy today too. I hope everyone is having a Happy Halloween and for those that want one a terrifyingly bone-chilling one
Hey...so just an observation of stuff that happens around me daily. When you get older, there's really more of a sense of scrutiny and judgement with a lot more things you do. You didn't do something correctly or according to the rules of even social norms and you're going to hear about it. It doesn't even have to be something illegal. Why are you facing the wall in an elevator? Why are you not going on this path that's labeled on the ground? I think that's why so many people just dread going out in public, it's a standard set of routine actions that we do to each other and thereby think everyone else is normal because they followed said thing. 

That's not to say that the opposite is exactly the answer to all our problems, people tend to take things to extremes and run it for others in doing so as authoritative figures have to do something in order to keep things from getting out of control.

Instead, I'd like to compare it to back when you and I were growing up, it was much more congratulatory and a happy environment. If you even tried at things people would be understanding and try to help you out. If you did something wrong for the most part they wouldn't just clamp down on you. Of course this is a generalization, I don't know how you all grew up, but when you're younger even the most annoying of people would be more understanding to you for the most part.

You don't really get a pat on the back if you do the stuff you normally do, the exception being if you find a person you really want to love. It's kind of a shame really. So it's always best to give people, not even just positive comments, anyone can give positive comments, but helpful comments, kindly worded helpful comments. So you can share your expertise about something and be positive about it as well. Kindly worded helpful comments followed by a positive statement can do wonderful things for people.

So while we're on the topic of wonderful things,
:iconcorvidae65:  has helped finish off the donation poll for us. So I've given the points to :iconteaphotography: for her hard work for stray animals. I hope everyone is doing well, I've been having some fun with...(certain)rpgs of all things, something I've never really been interested in until I found a good jumping off point. If you have some rpgs to recommend I'll hear you out definitely.
  • Listening to: UpNP; we're up and running!
  • Reading: Doom
  • Watching: Giant Bomb
  • Playing: Tales of Vesperia
  • Eating: Chicken
  • Drinking: Milk

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This is a donation pool for :iconmaki12: She...has had the worst luck of anyone I've known in my life so I've been trying to help her. This donation pool is mostly to help her feel better and known people can be caring, even if they don't know the person personally.

Btw, if you want to donate points for something other than this please leave a comment associated with the points as to what you want to put it towards. Thanks :)

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Hey...so just an observation of stuff that happens around me daily. When you get older, there's really more of a sense of scrutiny and judgement with a lot more things you do. You didn't do something correctly or according to the rules of even social norms and you're going to hear about it. It doesn't even have to be something illegal. Why are you facing the wall in an elevator? Why are you not going on this path that's labeled on the ground? I think that's why so many people just dread going out in public, it's a standard set of routine actions that we do to each other and thereby think everyone else is normal because they followed said thing. 

That's not to say that the opposite is exactly the answer to all our problems, people tend to take things to extremes and run it for others in doing so as authoritative figures have to do something in order to keep things from getting out of control.

Instead, I'd like to compare it to back when you and I were growing up, it was much more congratulatory and a happy environment. If you even tried at things people would be understanding and try to help you out. If you did something wrong for the most part they wouldn't just clamp down on you. Of course this is a generalization, I don't know how you all grew up, but when you're younger even the most annoying of people would be more understanding to you for the most part.

You don't really get a pat on the back if you do the stuff you normally do, the exception being if you find a person you really want to love. It's kind of a shame really. So it's always best to give people, not even just positive comments, anyone can give positive comments, but helpful comments, kindly worded helpful comments. So you can share your expertise about something and be positive about it as well. Kindly worded helpful comments followed by a positive statement can do wonderful things for people.

So while we're on the topic of wonderful things,
:iconcorvidae65:  has helped finish off the donation poll for us. So I've given the points to :iconteaphotography: for her hard work for stray animals. I hope everyone is doing well, I've been having some fun with...(certain)rpgs of all things, something I've never really been interested in until I found a good jumping off point. If you have some rpgs to recommend I'll hear you out definitely.
  • Listening to: UpNP; we're up and running!
  • Reading: Doom
  • Watching: Giant Bomb
  • Playing: Tales of Vesperia
  • Eating: Chicken
  • Drinking: Milk

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megabluex Featured By Owner Oct 22, 2014
THANKS FOR THE Added to my devWatch! 
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Destroyer77 Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2014
Sure thing
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MeralSarioglu Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2014
:iconshinyheartplz:Thank you so much!!:iconshinyheartplz:
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Destroyer77 Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2014
No problem
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Twilights-Maiden Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Thanks for the birthday wishes :)
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Destroyer77 Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2014
No problem :)
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Deoradhain Featured By Owner Jul 28, 2014
Happy Birthday Champ
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Destroyer77 Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2014
Thanks man, was a pretty ok one I guess. How have you been doing?
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Deoradhain Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2014
I've been surviving... blew my jeeps engine up had to get a new car. Having some issues with money at the moment thanks to some tenants walking out on their leases and not being able to fill the spots in a timely manner. Stuff of that nature.
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Destroyer77 Featured By Owner Sep 6, 2014
Hopefully not deliberately and just inadvertently...

Ah, that is definitely jerk behavior, following up with legal stuff in that regard so they will have to pay eventually? I also would have two tenants for you if you lived in the uk. You'd no doubt be a better landlord that didn't have the effing roof collapsing in on you with flooding and have to worry about giant trees falling on the building. All things my friend has had to deal with
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